I help men and women understand each other, communicate with each other and rebuild trust in each other.

How did I get here?  If you met me 10 years ago, it would have looked quite different.  I was stuck and alone, going through the motions of a job that felt meaningless to me (even though I finally was financially comfortable and secure), coming home to my own house every night that was empty and sad, and struggling every weekend to coax my few friends who were married and raising babies to do something...ANYTHING... with me. As for dating, well, when I even got up the motivation to try, it looked like me forcing myself to talk to someone uninteresting online or agree to another awful blind date.

So what changed?

I did.  I stopped standing in one place in my work life, home life and social life, waiting for the right man to come along to live life with.  Instead, I started LIVING that life in any way I could, right where I was.  I got curious about my job and company and expanded what I was doing there into a whole new job that led me to travelling the country, meeting new people, seeing new things and learning new things. That new energy spilled over into all other areas of my life and when I was finally ready to try dating again, it was from a whole new headspace and with a whole different level of clarity, calm and abundance. When you make the rest of your life full and interesting, you are better able to stand back and observe the dating prospects in front of you, evaluate where they are at and if they can meet you where you are at, and weather the ups and downs of disappointments quickly to keep you in the ring for when the right prospect does show up.  

...Talking to someone online or in person for the first time? 

...Understanding someone's text messages?

...How to have a fun first date?

....Communicating what you need when things get blurry?

....Understanding what your loved one IS or ISN'T saying when they get distant?

do you need help with...

I can help you with any of the above and more.  Because I have been where you are and still am.

I have been guiding and coaching single friends and coupled friends for years and, most importantly, I have coached and guided MYSELF.  

Let me share what I have learned for myself and taught others with you. Let me guide you through a new understanding of men, women and love itself.